Showing posts with label active parenting. Show all posts
Showing posts with label active parenting. Show all posts

Friday, March 11, 2011

Friday Fill-ins, Spring? are you there?



Go on over to Friday Fill-ins and get yourself some? or just read mine. :)

1. Oh gross! I thought it was _spring, but nope, it's snow and slush and mud season, oh and don't forget the rain now____.

2. __Not Making A Bucket List...___ well THAT's off my bucket list!

3. No, _I will not eat any more beef this week, really, there's been a huge beef surplus in my fridge, it's got to go, move over cow, bring in the Chicken____.

4. __I pray for all those in Japan and surrounding Counties in the path of the Tsunami with all my___ heart and soul.

5. And then __I also pray for my own families here and count the blessings that are really just snow and rain and ice and minimal weather discomforts in comparison___.

6. I can't forget __that next time the boys are off, I must buy easier Wooden puzzles. Today AJ had a scream fest because parts of his car puzzle wouldn't stay in the right holes. I would also like to mention to Creatology? you have to get your cuts placed better. If part 32 should slide into slot 32? make it fit. Make sure they line up, Quality is everything to 6-11yrolds. Frustration is not what this 38yrold wants to hear about, I was looking for quiet zoned in activities, not something I had to fix For them, I've created a Formula one car and a Car today. Note I said "I". The Helicopter turned out great though, thanks___.

7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to __less rain but that's already been a dashed dream___, tomorrow my plans include __moving slush out of the ditch so the water can flow, if it doesn't melt tonight___ and Sunday, I want to _get to mass, maybe alone since others are whining, alone time with 300 other people? it's almost heavenly____! (cue the flood warnings... ACK! Radio is on can you tell?)


OH!!! also change your clocks this weekend if you do that in your locality!!

Friday, September 18, 2009

And...here we go!


1. My car _is a van with two sliding doors, but this week? my drivers side slider is stuck and according to my Hubbie and the guys at the shop it's going to take a LOT Of work to get it unstuck because it's not just stuck but locked and stuck and in order to fix it we have to get the unlocked to work! I'm not happy. I did get to drive the new car this week. I don't like it, it's a sporty car I feel small on the road____.

2. ___My Hubbie's Birthday________ is coming up next.

3. Lately, things seem ____rushed, now we have band, bowlingX3, Cross country Running X2, and me trying to fit in my work out time_______.

4. _____The bathtub, with a book,______ is one of my favorite 'hiding' places.

5. What happened ____to those days when my kids were tiny and liftable? Now I've got kids as tall as my shoulders or belly button_______.

6. _____Losing weight______ is not impossible! (not gaining it back is the hard part)

7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to _my big walk while the kids are home playing with hubbie, and then maybe some movies with the kids____, tomorrow my plans include ___take the kids bowling, playground hopping while it's still warm enough, late night walking for me before the sun sets__ and Sunday, I want to __have great a Sunday mass experience as last week,I didn't have to waggle my finger or whisper to anyone in my family about their behaviour, it was calming and I was one happy Mommy, Praying we get a Sunday like that this week too___!

Thursday, August 06, 2009

The Ride to the Island

Warning this may be boring for some but I thought I'd write this down now incase some day I or they wont remember. I did it! really I did it! we left here at 1047am on the 25th and we arrived at the Cottage (an hour from the home where I grew up) at 6pm!

Hubbie is a great packer so I left the packing of the van to him while I piled more stuff into the pile to go into the van. I had 3 fears for this trip.

1. Bored kids, that they would be so bored with the trip down that they would start the "he's touching me, he's hitting me, he's looking at me... etc.." and I'd have to start the "If I hear one more complaint I'm pulling this car over and we wont go to the cottage, you wont get a vaccation and we'll go back home and watch paint dry" I didn't have to say that out loud once! I thought about it maybe twice, but they were not bored.
The boys brought a DSi- great for taking picture of other people's business, cars, trucks, trailers, transfer trucks going too fast, or pulling out in front of the mom when they shouldn't,and cool cars that go faster then mom's Van! They brought a V-tech laptop for MJ, he played game after game after game. AJ brought his ds (I think santa has ot do an upgrade on this now) and he played Mario continually. My only complaint is that his eye balls will wander off when he's done playing... oops. They also brought a laptop that Hubbie found while dumpster diving and fixed up. He cleaned it and made it run and put a map program onto it that doesn't need internet. He loved it! They could find all the roads that Mom was suppose to use and what was down the roads Mom didn't take.

2. Worry #2, was three boys and one mom going to the bathrooms. TJ is 10 that didn't bother me so much "go in there come out here and wait, don't move from that spot until I come and get you!" but I had to have faith that AJ could follow the same rules? ACK! that worried me. AJ always takes longer in the bathroom. I do not ever want to know why, really it should be a simple procedure. GO in, business, flush, wash hands lots,dry hands and leave?? no it's not for some reason. I then take MJ with me to the ladies, because well we still have that poo problem. It's not as disastrous as the Easter Weekend Trip though,(if you haven't read, it's like the 4th Random Thought from here...) well he did it! yep. We stopped our first pit stop 1.45hours from here, no need to "go" mini rest stops all around, back in the van. Next Stop was 3.5hours from here, we stop they all get out plan goes as is. Every one in and meet me here at the Pringles when you are done! excellent. MJ says in passing "I have a belly ache" I say "maybe it's that 1/2 lb of grapes you ate?, but we just let it go. only 3hours t the cottage. Away we go...
We had poo success on Sunday at the cottage. oh the excitement

3. My other worry is gas fill up! You can't leave kids in cars to go pay for your gas like our parents did, it's just too dangerous. You never know which idiot, especially the closer to the island you get, will have a cigarette* in his mouth while pumping the gas, or which kid will put the car into drive, or whatever so it's all about dragging 3 boys into the gas station to pay. At Stop 2 I notice there is a "full serve" sign,hmmmmmmm, maybe I should stop and get gas here? but wait the car is already pointed to the road to the island and I can make it ot he station before the causeway so I didn't. I got back on the highway and kept going. I get to the Place I want to stop and I stop it's self serve, so I ready my mind for the dragging in of 3 kids and then I see "pay up front, orrrrrrrr pay at the pump" ohhhhh pay at the pump you say? WOOOOOHOOOOOO! yep jobs done. Gas paid, me back in the van almost giddy and off we go. Over the Causeway, then to the Island.


So the 3 big fears didn't seem to be a problem. The rest of the trip going well We stop in the last"biggish" grocery store before the cottage to get milk and I buy a box of store brand Drumsticks, 4 pack, they all eat them and me and I sit in the car eying the government store, but didn't go in. It was there, I figured I was too tired to stop so we didn't. TJ was in charge of handing out the drinks and snacks. We didn't stop any where ot eat, he just kept sending the snacks forward.
I pull into the driveway of the cottage at 6pm and all is well. Van looked like this next morning complete with bunny looking to eat my tires?




I get my van unpacked enough for the cottage and get ourselves settled. ohhhhhhhh the tired! The boys enjoyed their grandparents(there to meet us) and had a great night. I think the adults fell asleep before the kids though. MJ slept in my bed and upside down with his head by the fridge. (Fridge lives in the bedroom off the kitchen due to repairs in the rebuilding of the porch)

So that's the big drive I had my brain convinced was impossible without Hubbie and I did it! Now I could do it again, I could I know that part is accomplish-able(new word). A new Car would be nice though.


*cigarettes -so something the boys aren't used to seeing that much, it became a cause for discussion, "oh look they are smoking", is now like the dirty phrase of the generation, remember when it was "oh they are kissing, ewwwwwww"

Friday, July 24, 2009

Friday Fill-ins Being the Adult, Not a chicken

And...here we go!



1. __Driving with 3 boys, and I will be repeating "it___ is not the end of the world".

2. Sitting here, listening to the sound of rain falling, I __am going to be suffering for SAD in the summer too this year. The sun is not shining enough for summer, and the leaves are about 1/4 changed on my trees, yes I know it's summer___.

3. ___Island Pizza,is in my memory and i can't wait to get some because__ tastes so good!

4. Sometimes, putting others first is _key to happiness, it's giving and receiving___.

5. __My Island__ is breathtaking, really.

6. Well, maybe there is __enough nerve in me to do this along. I've never driven anywhere being the pilot of the car let alone with the 3 boys. I'm sure it's worth it, I just have to get it done. Nervous? YES! I don't know how other people do this__. (yeah it's the only think on my mind after tomorrow I'll have done it!)

7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to __packing up the van so it's all done by morning___, tomorrow my plans include _driving 7hours to my destination with the boys and not freaking out or chickening out, no I will not chicken out. I'm the grown up right? yes please? I'm the grown up. ____ and Sunday, I want to _relax! on the deck of the cottage with Captain Morgan his friend diet coke and my parents to be the adults and watch my kids, wait I'm susposed to be the adult.__and relax knowing the kids are spending quality time with their grand parents, and sleeping safely in their sleeping bags. yeah that's it__!
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